I’m a single pringle!
Single and ready to mingle; but am I?
As a young woman in her early twenties, I am feeling the pressure to meet someone, settle down, fall in love and have children. But am I truly ready?
As much as finding love would be amazing and planning a life to share with another human being is what every girl dreams of; I just don’t feel like I am ready to put all that trust in another person. Love is beautiful and when it happens it will be the most natural emotion one can have, but how do you know whom to trust? Who will leave you to be a single mum? Who will sleep with your best friend? Or wipe out the joint bank account; which will love you for YOU to the moon and back? Continuous questions!
All the above worries are completely normal and you are not alone if you are thinking the same as me. With all my friends finding love at the most random time of our lives, I am feeling the strain emotionally. Whirlwinds of questions rush through my head. Am I pretty? Am I wifey material? How do boys see me? What are my assets? The list goes on into the early hours of the night.
The moral of the story is girls, do you and be happy. Take your time and let what will be, be. Everyone has a path and each individual’s path has its own clock, don’t dance to the same rhythm as your friends, dance to your own beat.